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Kad je teško otvoriti srce: Od zaštite prema ranjivoj hrabrosti

Iskustvena radionica ciklusa „Svjesno tijelo: Kad je svega previše”

10. travnja 2027. | Tango Pasional, Zagreb | 9:30 – 17:00

Zašto nam je ponekad teško otvoriti se upravo onda kada želimo bliskost?

Svi želimo osjećati povezanost, pripadnost i bliskost. Želimo odnose u kojima možemo biti svoji, izraziti ono što osjećamo i dopustiti drugima da nas zaista upoznaju. Pa ipak, upravo u odnosima koji su nam najvažniji ponekad se najviše štitimo. Možda se povlačimo kada nam netko postane važan. Možda se prilagođavamo kako bismo izbjegli odbacivanje. Ili smo naučili oslanjati se isključivo na sebe jer nam se otvorenost nekada činila previše rizičnom. Ponekad možemo biti okruženi ljudima, a ipak osjećati usamljenost.

Što ako naša teškoća s bliskošću nije nedostatak želje za povezivanjem, nego način na koji smo naučili štititi sebe?

Iz perspektive tjelesne psihoterapije, naši obrasci povezivanja ne postoje samo u mislima. Oni se odražavaju i u tijelu. U načinu na koji dišemo, reagiramo na blizinu, održavamo kontakt ili se povlačimo kada osjetimo ranjivost.

Tijekom života razvijamo različite načine zaštite koji su nam nekada pomagali očuvati osjećaj sigurnosti. No ono što nas je nekoć štitilo, danas nas ponekad može udaljavati od bliskosti koju želimo.

Kako ostati otvoren prema drugima, a pritom ne izgubiti kontakt sa sobom?

Što ćemo istraživati na radionici?

Na iskustvenoj radionici „Kad je teško otvoriti srce: Od zaštite prema ranjivoj hrabrosti” kroz pokret, dah, svjesno opažanje tijela i iskustveni rad istraživat ćemo odnos između sigurnosti, ranjivosti i povezanosti.

Posebnu pozornost posvetit ćemo:

  • Prepoznavanju obrazaca zaštite – kako se povlačenje, prilagodba i emocionalno zatvaranje odražavaju u tijelu i odnosima.
  • Razumijevanju straha od ranjivosti – zašto nam bliskost ponekad istovremeno donosi osjećaj sigurnosti i nelagode.
  • Razvijanju unutarnjeg oslonca – kako ostati povezani sa sobom i vlastitim potrebama u kontaktu s drugima.
  • Istraživanju otvorenosti i povjerenja – kako postupno stvarati prostor za bliskost uz poštovanje vlastitih granica.
  • Razvijanju ranjive hrabrosti – kako ostati prisutni i otvoreni čak i kada ne možemo unaprijed znati kako će druga osoba odgovoriti.

Cilj radionice nije ukloniti sve naše zaštite niti se prisiliti na otvorenost.

Cilj je istražiti kako razvijati sposobnost za bliskost u kojoj možemo ostati povezani i sa sobom i s drugima.

Jer možda pitanje nije samo: „Zašto mi je tako teško povezati se?”

Nego i: „Koliko mogu ostati otvoren kada ne znam kako će drugi odgovoriti?”

Kome je radionica namijenjena?

Radionica je namijenjena svima koji:

  • žele bliskost, ali primjećuju da se povlače kada im netko postane važan
  • teško pokazuju ranjivost ili izražavaju svoje emocionalne potrebe
  • često se prilagođavaju drugima kako bi očuvali odnos
  • imaju osjećaj usamljenosti čak i kada su okruženi ljudima
  • teško vjeruju drugima ili se oslanjaju isključivo na sebe
  • žele istražiti kako njihova ranija iskustva odnosa utječu na današnju sposobnost povezivanja.

Namijenjena je i psihoterapeutima, edukantima psihoterapijskih pravaca te stručnjacima pomagačkih profesija zainteresiranima za tjelesno orijentirani pristup odnosima, privrženosti i ranjivosti.

Prethodno iskustvo s tjelesnom psihoterapijom nije potrebno.

Voditeljica 

Nina Senečić edukatorica je i supervizorica tjelesne psihoterapije te mentorica i učiteljica Open Floor svjesnog pokreta i plesa. Više od deset godina radi s pojedincima, grupama i edukantima psihoterapijskih programa, povezujući tjelesnu psihoterapiju, bioenergetiku, svjesni pokret i ples, rad s dahom i mindfulness pristupe.

Informacije o radionici

Date: Subota, 10. travnja 2027.
Vrijeme: 9:30 – 17:00
Pauza za ručak: 12:30 – 14:00
Location: Tango Pasional, Zagreb
Voditeljica: Nina Senečić

Kotizacija

  • 100 € – rana prijava do 27. ožujka 2027.
  • 120 € – redovna cijena

Broj mjesta je ograničen. Prijava se potvrđuje uplatom.

Bodovanje

Sudionici dobivaju potvrdu o sudjelovanju i edukacijskim satima za kontinuirano stručno usavršavanje pri EABP-u, HKPT-u i SKZP-u. Edukanti CIR INTP-a ostvaruju 2 boda iz grupne psihoterapije.

Dio ciklusa „Svjesno tijelo: Kad je svega previše”

Ovo je četvrta i završna radionica ciklusa koji prati razvojni put:

Oslonac → Životnost → Izražavanje → Povezanost

Kroz prethodne tri radionice istraživali smo kako razvijati unutarnji oslonac, stvarati više prostora za životnost te povezivati osjećaje s autentičnim izražavanjem. Završna radionica povezuje ove teme kroz istraživanje odnosa, bliskosti i ranjivosti.

Niste sudjelovali na prethodnim radionicama? Još uvijek se možete uključiti!

Svaka radionica zasebna je iskustvena cjelina pa je moguće sudjelovati pojedinačno, bez prethodnog sudjelovanja u ciklusu.

Relief. Quiet. Where does form stop and presence begin?

The first workshop as an invitation to slip from the world to the body. There is no rush, no expectation, no need to immediately “give”. Through the power of simple movement and deeper activation of the center, we explore what we bring with us and what we no longer need to carry. We work in pairs, in dyads, in silence and in touch. From the inside out. This is a place where you don't have to be good. You're real because you're feel what it means to rest in your own body without tasks, without performance.

Grounding. Return to gravity and slowness. In the body and nature.

After arrival, descend deeper. This afternoon workshop calls for consent to be difficult, to be received by the earth, to be supported by the body. We use breath and gravity as allies. Through floor work, deeper physical pressure, and small waves of release we learn how to empty ourselves to recharge. Eventually we form pods & # 8211; small trust groups that follow us through the entire intensive. The earth does not ask us to ascend. It is enough to descend and regulate through the breath and weight of the body so that you no longer seek stability from the outside, but really feel it within yourself.

Deidentification. Who am I when I stop being someone?

In this workshop we lay down the layers, not as an act of courage, but as a return to what was never complex. Through precisely guided physical therapy work, we come into contact with unconscious identifications that guide us like autopilot: I am the one who cares, the one who gives, the one who has to be strong.we use psychodynamic structures, working with testimony, release and regulation, to unravel what we have learned from within to call “I”. Through the body, you become more present for what you should not have shown, and you discover the unconscious roles that hold you in effort and guilt, without having to change. This isn't breaking up with yourself. This is a memory of yourself before all the roles.

When we stop looking, it finds us.

This Central Workshop opens a space for contemplation, expansion and integration, not through the mind, but through breath, movement and emptiness. By combining guided meditation, conscious breath and authentic dance, Griet leads us into a state that is neither introspective nor expressive, but pervasive. We learn to listen to the body when we don't make it talk. Breath comes in where words don't know. Movement does not come from an idea, but from silence. This is where real transpersonal psychotherapy happens: the moment when your body becomes the forest, the bird, the wind and all that together becomes you. You're entering a state of deep connection that can't be done by technique but happens when the body lets go of control. There is nothing missing in this silence.

Contact without performance. Closeness that does not require confirmation.

What if the contact doesn't require effort? This workshop restores the interpersonal dimension of the body in its most basic form: play, curiosity and human touch without an agenda. Through spontaneous interactions, contact play, and emotional group regulation, we learn what it means to be seen not because we are special, but because we are available. Lower intensity, more lightness. A space for laughter, touch, eyes that do not seek already offer presence. We use insights from Affective Neuroscience (play, care, seeking) to awaken our gentlest, most played selves. We will experience closeness without effort and drama and learn how contact can feed rather than exhaust. Intimacy doesn't start with pain. It starts in simple: Hey, here I am. You?

Visibility without noise. Invisibility without fear.

There's a place in us that doesn't try to be interesting. He doesn't hide from shame. It's a place that just is. This workshop explores the fine transitions between visibility and retraction. We don't need to be silent, we don't need to be silent. And without ever having to be “someone”. Through carefully structured movements, small rituals of discovery and hiding, we play with the space in between: what happens when you see me? What if you don't know who I am? Can I stand the tenderness of attention without having to prove myself? We push the boundaries between in and out, our own rhythm and common space, and let ourselves be seen exactly where we don't think we have anything to show. We will explore how being seen without noise and calm without avoiding which changes the way you appear in the world. This is not a workshop of expression, but of permission. And that changes everything.

Moving from intensity to daily flow

There is a freshness in the ordinary, a space in which nothing has to be proved. This is a place where freedom is not a goal, but a natural sequence of our being. In this workshop we explore how to retain the presence and tenderness we found in intensity as we walk through our days, obligations and demands. Through gentle movements, guided constellations and silent rituals of integration, we find our own paths of maintaining freedom in simplicity. What happens when commonality becomes our ally? How do you stay present in the silence and noise of the world? Can we go through the day with a consciousness that does not seek specialness, but accepts reality as a path to deeper authenticity? This is not an ending, but a gentle beginning. A journey from the space of intensity to the natural rhythm of life.